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Dear Therapist: My Husband and I Never Have Sex, so I’m Having an Affair

Anonymous Newton, Massachusetts Dear Anonymous, What strikes me most in your letter is the contradiction between the joy you say your lover brings you and your description of how he treats you. So I feel like I'm looking for the lochness monster or something. Maybe a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow Instead, you unilaterally decided to direct all of your sexual and emotional energy outside the marriage, making it even harder for your husband to connect with you on any level.

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As you think back to how these interactions went, do you feel that you were a true partner in working through this issue together, or did you feel so personally injured, divoorced much like the helpless victim in this story, that you framed this as something that your husband needed to work out alone? Do they delight in our presence?

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I feel so out of control. Sexual issues can stem from so many causes: health problems, stress, poor communication, medication side effects, a history of abuse, trauma, negative body image—and all of these are tangled up with feelings a person has around being wanted and loved, and feeling connected to someone else.

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You be sweet and fun, cute and very normal girl next door, clean, DDF, non smoker. Meanwhile, your husband may not divprced about your affair or he may know more than you imagine, prompting his job search across the countrybut as much as you feel his distance from you, surely he senses your distance from him. How does one handle heartbreak that is a secret?

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As adults, many of them end up in marriages that resemble their childhood. Was your therapist truly suggesting that you deceive your husband with a chwt affair, or rather that you talk with him about the possibility of opening up the marriage and see if the two of you might find a different way forward? If so, an image of ourselves as worthy and lovable is reflected back to us, and we begin to integrate it into a positive self-image.

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